Transform Relationships

Transform your relationships by cleaning the 'filters' in your unconscious mind

restoring and cultivating relationships

Problems with disconnection

Relationships and Trauma

Life is all about building, maintaining, giving, and receiving through your relationships. No matter the age or stage in life, relationships are the foundation of your existence. Your relationships range from intimate and individual, to being one among billions within the whole human family.

Relationships are about restoring and cultivating heart to heart connections. We all experience love, peace, joy, and serenity by aligning to our highest potential. We also experience neglect, conflict, persecution, and outright abuse. This is common when ignorance and fear prevail.

Over time, all  of us experience degrees of trauma which create neurological 'filters' in the unconscious mind. These 'filters' block or alter all new incoming information into a single, type of output. Almost all of the time, this output is negative and it diminishes your ability to stay connected to others.


What's in the way

Emotions and Limiting Decisions

The words "to feel" describe both physical and emotional phenomena. Your nervous system feels physical sensations of temperature, pain, and pressure. It also feels emotional sensations of pleasure, fear, and grief. 

Separating the physical from the emotional is common in western culture. How often have you felt judged or embarrassed that your emotions have influenced your perceptions? Many decide that emotions lead you astray and/or cloud your understanding.

Devaluing emotions creates barriers in your relationships. These barriers prevent you from feeling and experiencing life to the fullest.

emotions pain relationships

Your emotions are completely interwoven with and reflect into your physical, mental and spiritual well-being. "Emotions" are a chemical translation of your thoughts into reactions within your body. Your limiting decisions, the negative concepts you internalize about yourself, most often arise from your childhood trauma.

Limiting decisions persist into adulthood, below the level of your conscious awareness and they generate limiting beliefs, which is the evidence you collect to confirm your original decision. Limiting decisions and limiting beliefs generate chronic stress responses, that cannot be controlled by your conscious mind. Once these physiological loops are established, they interfere with your ability to be present within your relationships.


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Transform Your Relationships...

  • Are the same patterns repeating in your relationships?
  • Do you keep attracting unhealthy partners?
  • Is it difficult asking to have your needs met?
  • Do you have problems with boundaries?
  • Are you afraid of commitment?

Stress and trauma create 'filters' in your unconscious mind. These filters limit and skew your communication skills, creating issues in your personal and professional relationships. Cleaning your 'filters' transforms your relationships.  

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